- LEARN TO FORGIVE, LEAVE THE PAST AND STICK TO THE FUTURE
Holding on to offences committed in the past and lack of forgiveness can truly mar your communication with your daughter. Letting go of the past can make her trust you more, it can make her believe in you and make her know that no matter her offence, her mother has a very large heart that says to her,” it’s ok, let it go”. Whenever she does anything, react based on the current offence and reference should not be made to things that are past, bringing them up, will impact negatively on your communicating with your daughter, forgive her wrong doings and purposely allow it to go with the past.
Holding her past against her is like tying her up to her offenses. So consider this for a moment, imagine yourself going around with offenses you had committed years ago, still tied around you for all to see, I know it is not a scene you will like to find yourself in.
Free your daughter of every ill she may have committed, she has the right to be free, and she has the right to move around without the ties of guilt and accusations.